: Clearly communicate your boundaries and limits. This includes what you're comfortable with in terms of role-play, tasks, and communication.

This is where many DDLG dynamics fail. You must distinguish between:

Even in a DDLG dynamic, "Adulting" still has to happen. Rules can help a Little stay on track with their real-world responsibilities.

If rules are broken, "punishments" (often called "funishments" if they are playful) are used to correct the behavior.

Here are some additional tips that Littles may find helpful in a DDLG relationship: