| | Toxic/Avoidant (Unhealthy) | | :--- | :--- | | Arguments have a clear trigger and resolution. | Arguments are circular, endless, and involve gaslighting. | | Both partners feel safe to "win" the fight. | One partner always capitulates to keep the peace. | | Physical safety is never questioned. Yelling is verbal, not physical. | Yelling escalates to throwing objects or blocking exits. | | Aftermath includes repair (touch, food, apology). | Aftermath involves the silent treatment or score-keeping. | | Outsiders think you hate each other, but you know you love each other. | Outsiders think you hate each other, and you are exhausted. |
: Usually features 8-10 patterns and multiple intensity levels. Sexibl Trixie Model
When developing a narrative for a Trixie-type character, the most successful stories follow a specific emotional trajectory: | | Toxic/Avoidant (Unhealthy) | | :--- |
Moving beyond still photos to interactive video content that builds a loyal community. | One partner always capitulates to keep the peace