Do not accept a kit at spawn. Even if a player throws you a shulker, do not pick it up. They will likely hit you with a knockback stick into a lava pit. Instead, walk or boat away from the spawn radius (at least 500 blocks in the Nether, or 5,000 in the Overworld).
On a server with no rules and no resets, the power dynamic is defined by resources. 54.208.191.206 6b6t kits
Designed for the server's massive world, these include stacks of rockets, multiple Elytras, Ender Pearls, and food supplies like steak or golden carrots. Do not accept a kit at spawn