The final step is the hardest. Once you have done the work, you must stop chasing. Decker says, "Attraction is a state of receiving, not a state of hunting." When you embody the energy of someone who is already in a loving, dynamic relationship (i.e., you are calm, open, non-needy, and full of your own joy), you broadcast that frequency. People feel it. They are drawn to it. They want to join your storyline, not rescue you from a lack of one.
The cornerstone of the Vanessa Decker method is Narrative Identity Theory . Decker takes this psychological concept and applies it directly to the heart. -SexArt- Vanessa Decker -Attract Part 1- ...